Maintaining Weight while Pregnant

It must be the hormones. For the first two trimesters of my pregnancy, I have been really watching my weight. Now that I’m about to enter my third trimester, I feel so sluggish and I don’t really get to weigh myself anymore. I don’t know if I’m gaining weight already. I better weigh myself tomorrow.

With this, I thought of coming up with an article to discuss weight maintenance during pregnancy. Hopefully, if I remind myself of what I have been doing for the past months, this would motivate me to continue doing what I have been doing. This would also help you out in defining and following practical tips while pregnant.

I’m just a normal gal. I started with a weight of 133 pounds. I am 5 feet 4 inches tall, so here in the Philippines, you could consider my weight ‘normal’. I’m was not too thin nor was I too fat. With the pregnancy, I am expected to gain only 25-35 pounds. That would make me 158 to 168 pounds. Eeeeek! I have never been that heavy, but being pregnant is indeed a blessing, so I won’t complain! :P

For those who have been monitoring my blogs, I have been giving you updates on Baby PA and that includes updates on my weight. Last November 27, 2012, I weighed 154 already. That gives me a total of 22 pounds gained already (23 weeks and 4 days). My next check up is on Dec. 21, 2 weeks from now and I shouldn’t weigh more than 158 pounds. Tsk tsk! I hope I can make it. The biggest gain was actually during the first trimester. I wasn’t supposed to gain weight but unfortunately, I just came from a diet. Well, I can say that I have pretty been able to control my weight gain during the second trimester. Here are some tips from my actual experience:

1. I weigh every day or every other day.
Weighing makes you conscious of the pounds that you have gained so far. I make it a point to monitor and have a “target weight” by my next check up. I try to monitor my weight as frequently as possible to achieve this target weight.

2. I make it a point to drink 8 glasses of water.
I know that a lot of you hear about this over and over again, but it really is true. I know of a few pregnant moms who have told me that they have already felt bloated during the second trimester. They could already feel the water retention or “pagmamanas”. I hardly experience this, and I think it’s because I love water.

3. Try to eat at regular hours of the day and don’t over eat.
My schedule in the morning is I wake up at 8:00 am. I drink a cup of hot milk, and then at 9:00 am, I take my breakfast. My breakfast is usually this.

Healthy breakfast!

This is scrambled egg with mushrooms, thoroughly cooked shrimp, bell pepper and onions. I usually don’t change my breakfast, since this is the meal that I can control. But if I do get tired of it, I sometimes go with a two slices of whole wheat bread with peanut butter.

For dinner, I try to eat a light, well balanced meal. I try to avoid anything that has sugar in the evening. I only see to it that I eat a half cup of brown rice or whole wheat pasta if ever.

4. Movement is key!
During the first trimester and the beginning of the second trimester, I wasn’t allowed to move (due to spotting). When I got the doctor’s go signal, I made it a point to walk at least 30 minutes a day and I gradually got to increase it during this trimester. I now walk 3 miles on the treadmill with a speed of 3 miles per hour. I know that’s slow for a few and you may feel lazy and bored, but you will find out that this speed is just right. If you feel any pain, just lessen the speed until you feel comfortable again. That’s what I do. Try to exercise at least thrice a week.

5. Never ever use the assumption that you are eating for two!
Friends tell me “okay lang yan (it’s okay), you’re eating for two anyway!”, but try not to use this as a justification for eating a whole lot more. Gaining more than what is expected of you can complicate your delivery. Just eat the right kind of food and you will be okay.

Do you have other advise that you would like to share? Was their anything that you did during your pregnancy that helped you stay on track, in terms of weight? I’d love to hear about it.

Love,

Rome Kanapi’s Lamaze or Prepared Childbirth Classes

Hurray to knowledge! I am a sucker for continuous learning. I believe that the best way to get information is through other’s experiences and through talking with experts in the subject matter you are interested in. I love attending seminars and workshops. I love listening to facts, experiences and shared information. I already mentioned in previous articles that I am gathering all the information that I can for Child birth. One of the terms that I have come across is lamaze.

What exactly is Lamaze?
Lamaze was introduced way back in 1951 by a doctor named, Dr. Fernand Lamaze. This method of childbirth was introduced in France and was actually a method with borrowed techniques that the doctor observed from Russia. This excerpt from Lamaze.org says it all: “This method, consisting of childbirth education classes, relaxation, breathing techniques and continuous emotional support from the father and a specially trained nurse, became known as “the Lamaze method.

Miss Rome Kanapi – picture from https://www.facebook.com/RomeKanapiBirthingClass

I asked my cousin who attended Lamaze classes here on who to contact. She told me that she attended Rome Kanapi’s classes. Rome Kanapi is a Certified Instructor from the Philippine Association of Childbirth Education(P.A.C.E). She immediately sent me the number and I got in touch with Miss Rome. I talked to miss Rome on the phone and she was really nice (I think our intial conversation lasted for 30 minutes :) ). She asked me a lot about my condition. She then told me that she will have classes on January. These are 6 Sunday meetings that lasts from 9 am to 12 noon. The dates for the January classes are January 6, 13, 20, 27 February 3 and 10, 2013. The venue will be at Room 2 Walter Hogan Conference Center also called Institute of Social Order Complex or ISO, Father Arrupe Road, Ateneo University, Katipunan Avenue, Loyola Heights, Quezon City.

I am excited to attend this class. She told me to log my food and drink intake a week before January 6 (January 1-5). The things that you have to prepare to bring are the following:

1. one mat – either a local mat/banig, exercise mat with foam, yoga mat, sleeping bag or big towel
2. one small throw pillow
3. food list

She told me to come in comfortable clothes like pants, shorts or leggings. Classes are at Php 4,500 (6 sessions).

Why did we enroll for these Prepared Childbirth classes?
1. They mentioned that husbands only enter the delivery room if they are certified with Lamaze. I want my husband to be there with me.
2. I want to know what to expect during childbirth. Knowing what to expect will help me relax a little when I do get to encounter these scenarios.

If you are pregnant and you want to join these classes in January, do contact Rome Kanapi at telephone number 436-1757 and mobile number 0917-541-5114. I hope to see you there in class with me and Ej! :)

Love,
Mommy-to-Be

 

Pregnancy Books

Ever since I resigned to be a housewife, I have been keeping myself busy by preparing for the baby. I haven’t started buying things since my mom wants me to start preparing and buying stuff on the third trimester. She says it’s unlucky if we start preparing early. I have started cleaning the second bedroom of the condo unit though.

This was how it looked before…

It’s a lot better now and it doesn’t look like a storage room anymore. I will post pictures when I finish fixing the place.

So, what’s keeping me busy? I have been reading pregnancy books. Here are the two books that I highly recommend for you to read.

What to Expect When You’re Expecting is one of the must have’s of an expecting mom. It really helps me understand what I’m going through. There are a lot of useful tips that any expecting mom can do. I haven’t started reading the What to Expect The First Year yet. I will start reading it soon, as well.

The other book that I have is the Your Pregnancy Week by Week. This book is helpful and is actually very easy to read. It helps to have two references. One book may have something that you are looking for, which the other book does not have.

I highly recommend that you purchase these two books. It will help you a lot in preparing for the baby and in understanding your body more.

Love lots,

Entering my Second Trimester

Boom! Goodbye to my 27 inch waistline! I think I am already at 29-30 inches. Haha! I think this is the only time in my life where I do not care about looking round and obviously overweight! I think my tummy started becoming rounder and more ‘pregnant’ just this week. During my first trimester, I wasn’t feeling anything becoming bigger. I just know that I started eating more than my usual, because in my mind, I knew that I had to.

I gained the 8 pounds that I lost from my South Beach diet, which I was into before I realized that I was pregnant. From 132 pounds, I am now at 140 pounds again. And to top it all, I was asked by my doctor to go on bed rest for 4 weeks (I’m on my third week of complete bed rest). I had to go on bed rest since I experienced spotting three weeks ago. I had to take Duphaston.

Right now, I feel fine aside from the occasional emotional moments. Just last night, I cried while watching So You Think You Can Dance. I feel like Mary Murphy (she’s quick to cry =’(…).

Doctor has advised me to take 2 glasses of milk for pregnant women — one in the morning and one in the evening. The feat is (now that I’m pregnant) literally forcing myself to gulp and take in the glass of milk prepared for me. I don’t know why I hate milk now. I used to love milk. In fact, during breaks in the office, I used to buy tetra packs of the Nestle Low Fat Milk.  Anyway, it’s a good thing that among all the maternity milk brands that I tried (believe me, I tried most if not all of them and in different flavors), I like the Anmum Vanilla the best. Thank you, Anmum! So, that is what I’m taking now. My suggestion is that if you are like me, try different brands and different flavors. One of these will make you happy.

Little Baby Arboleda at 13 Weeks

Anyway, to summarize everything that has been happening (thank you to http://littlebabygarvin.blogspot.com for the template!)

How far along? 13 Weeks, 1 Day
Total weight gain/loss: 8 lbs (from 132 to 140)
Maternity clothes bought? 1 super long dress, 1 maternity slacks (but I think it’s still too big for me), a lot of maternity tops (Geesh, I really need to buy more dresses!)
Stretch marks? None… but my tummy gets itchy at times (and I successfully resist the temptation to scratch)
Sleep: Sleeping well but I have occasional weird dreams
Best moment this week: Realizing that the nauseous feeling lessened and i’m finally entering my 2nd trimester
Miss Anything? My flat tummy and clear skin (my skin’s breaking out!). I don’t really miss coffee which is such a wonder!
Movement: Not yet… :( We heard the heartbeat though. It was at 151 beats per minute
Food cravings: OMG… Mamou’s Steak and Buco/Lychee/Papaya Shake!
Anything making you queasy or sick: Smell of Coffee (again, a wonder!)
Have you started to show yet: Yes, I have that little bump that is starting to show
Gender prediction: Most people say that they think it’s a Girl. I think it’s a Boy
Labor Signs: None
Belly Button in or out? In
Happy or Moody most of the time: Stressed… so I guess I’m Moody
Looking forward to: Feeling the baby move and seeing the 4D Ultrasound… :)

This is how I look now… (I don’t know though if you notice my little baby bump already) :>

Ginger at Week 13 of Pregnancy

So what do you think? Is it a boy or a girl?

I’d really leave to hear about your experiences then maybe we can share notes! Just drop me a message below!

 

Love,

P.S. Happy birthday to my Tito Tony, who is going to be a grandfather soon, too!
P.P.S. I am now officially becoming a mom blogger! Wooohooo!

Cordlife Philippines and Stem Cells

One of the things that I value in life is health. I think this is one of the things, if not the most important thing that we should prioritize and give value to. Being pregnant makes you realize that Motherhood comes with great responsibility. It’s now not just keeping you and your husband healthy and happy, but now, it also entails keeping your child in the best of health.

During my visits to my OB, I would see a lot of reading materials about Cordlife Philippines. I didn’t know what Cordlife was and what this company was promoting. I actually got curious only when a friend texted me about this seminar.

I visited the Cordlife Philippines website (http://www.cordlife.ph/en/) and saw this video. This video pretty much summarizes what Cordlife is about.

Basically, when a woman gives birth, cord blood is collected. This blood contains stem cells that can be beneficial in curing more than 80 diseases including Leukemia, Lymphoma, etc.

I am excited to learn more about cord blood, stem cells and Cordlife Philippines. I already signed up for the Pregnancy Journey Event this September 15, 2012 from 10 am to 1 pm. It will be at Gold room of Best Western F1 Hotel,
32nd St. Bonifacio Global City. To sign up for the event, please visit this link: http://www.cordlife.ph/en/pregnancy-journey

The Program highlights are as follows:
- Touch Therapy for your baby – workshop includes hands-on exercises by J & J touch therapy expert
- Discover the benefits of storing your baby’s cord blood by Dr. Arvin Faundo, Medical director of CordLife Medical Phils.

See you there!

“I’m Pregnant!” – Ginger

It was a Sunday morning and I felt weird the past few days. I felt queasy at really odd times of the day. I thought it was low blood sugar from all the dieting that I have been doing, so I stopped and increased my food intake. Nothing happened. I still felt weirdly nauseous (even after eating).

I knew that there was something ‘new’ going on in my body. I just had a feeling. I wanted to confirm it, so I bought 4 packets of home pregnancy tests. That Sunday morning in July, I took the packet, read the instructions (I have forgotten how to read these tests) and went through the test. I was both scared and excited.

I was scared since I didn’t want to go through all the pain and anxiety that I felt during the last pregnancy that I had. I was scared that complications were going to occur again. These were some of my blog entries during that time: http://gingerarboleda.com/2010/06/08/waiting-to-exhale/ and http://gingerarboleda.com/tag/chemo-for-placenta-accreta/

As I checked the test, lo and behold, it was positive!

I was really happy. Ej and I were trying for a baby this year. It was an answered prayer. I guess I knew that this time I was ready to have this. I was healthier than ever before and I was mentally and emotionally prepared. I went out to the dining room and showed EJ the test. He said “ano yan? (what’s that?)”. I just looked at him and smiled. Then he said, “Really? For sure?” I said, “yes, I tested twice.” Then he came and hugged me and said “Congratulations, baby!” It was really sweet… up until he danced his really weird dance.

First Visit to the Doctor
I had to take a leave from work. Of course, I had to tell my bosses and they were really happy for me. That Wednesday, I went to visit Dra. Sarmiento, my pretty OB, so also has her own website – http://www.filipinamd.com/ (how cool is that?!). Upon entering her clinic, even before we really sat to talk, she gave me instructions to have lab tests done and my trans-vaginal ultrasound done. We rushed to the different clinics and had all these tests done.

I just have to say that all these tests that I had done in Asian Hospital was a breeze. The people there were very efficient and accommodating. Bravo, guys!

Anyway, I went back to my OB’s Clinic. she looked at the results and said that everything looked normal. I was in my 4th week so the baby wasn’t really in sight yet. She instructed me to come back after two weeks. My heart skipped a beat and negative thoughts entered my mind one by one. What if this was like my first pregnancy? What if in two weeks still no baby were to be found? There were a lot of what if’s… I forced myself to look at the brighter side of things. The gestational sac was just about the right size. The ovaries were healthy. Nothing seemed to be wrong. All I had to do was wait for the next visit and it was quite a long wait.

Week 6
I, of course, wanted to tell my parents. They were excited, but scared for me, too. They knew the hardships that I had to go through during my first pregnancy. They advised me not to tell people yet. I kept the secret and it was killing me. I started eating ‘normal’ food and I let go of my South beach diet. My OB advised me to drink milk, so I tried Anmum, Frisomom, etc. On August 1, I had to go back to the hospital to have my tests.

I went to the Women’s Health Unit first to have my ultrasound. Ej, my hubby, was extremely talkative and funny. I knew that he was scared for both of us. I knew that he knew that this was it. This was the time when we were to find out if we had a baby or just another false alarm again. I asked him to come with me to the ultrasound room. He normally stays in the waiting room, but this time, I wanted him to come and see the screen. We entered the room. I laid down on the retractable chair and the doctor came in. She looked at my records and saw that I had a miscarriage. She asked if this was the first time ‘if ever’ that we were to see the fetus. I said “yes”. We began the ultrasound and in just seconds she said “Congratulations” and pointed at the baby in the screen with the mouse.


Baby Arbo!

We both were so happy. Words couldn’t explain how I felt. I knew that Ej felt the same way. The doctor had us hear the heartbeat. It was so amazing! So that was how it felt to hear your baby’s heart for the first time. It was truly a miracle and I felt happy.

While waiting for our appointment with the OB, we couldn’t contain our happiness so we posted this picture already in Facebook (of course!).

The doctor already advised me to take care and she gave me several tips. I am so excited to share with you my 9 month journey. Today is Week 9. Aside from the frequent nauseous feeling and the occasional cramping, everything seems to be going smoothly and perfectly.

Well, that’s my big story. I’m pregnant.

Complexities in Pregnancies

It’s my last day of my chemotherapy. No, I don’t have the big C but did you know that there are other diseases and illnesses that chemo can cure? My doctor said that small dosages of a chemo medication can even be used for arthritis. But, I also don’t have arthritis either. I have a complexity which I found after my miscarriage. I’m still not sure though if it’s Gestational Trophoblastic Disease (GTD) or Placenta Accreta. My doctors are more inclined though to believe that it is the latter.

For those who have been diagnosed as such, here are some explanations that you might need to know. I had a hard time absorbing information about these two diseases, so i’m hoping this helps you.

Gestational Trophoblastic Disease (GTD)
GTD is a group of rare tumors that involve abnormal growth of cells inside a woman’s uterus. Unlike cervical cancer or endometrial cancer (uterine lining) this diseases does not develop from cells of the uterus. These tumors start in the cells that would normally develop into the placenta during pregnancy. *The term “gestational” refers to pregnancy. This disease begins in the layer of cells called the trophoblast that normally surrounds an embryo. *Tropho- means “nutrition,” and -blast means “bud” or “early developmental cell.” Early in normal development, the cells of this layer form tiny, finger-like projections known as villi. These villi grow into the lining of the uterus. In time, the trophoblast layer develops into the placenta, the organ that protects and nourishes the growing fetus.

Most GTDs are benign (non cancerous) and they don’t invade deeply into body tissues or spread to other parts of the body. But some are cancerous. All forms of GTDs can be treated and in most cases the treatment produces a complete cure. My doctor said that it’s the only form of cancer reacts almost 100% to chemotherapy, and thus, can be completely cured. When we hear of molar pregnancy or hydatidiform mole (H-mole), this is actually a type of GTD. But then again, it’s curable. For GTDs, there is only a 10% chance that it happens again in your next pregnancy. Of course, for malignant GTDs, if chemo is not able to cure it, then surgery may have to be the next option.

For more information, a good site is the Amercian Cancer Society

Placenta Accreta
In my personal blog, I had an entry there regarding placenta accreta and placenta praevia. Last August 2009, according to the news, the 29 year old wife of Junjun Binay, Kennely Binay died of placenta praevia. This is a disorder where the placenta is attached to the uterine wall close to the cervix. When I asked my doctor about it, the next day, she said that it could not have been praevia but more of accreta that was not detected earlier on.

Placenta accreta is when the placenta is deeply attached to the muscles of the uterus. It may be attached to any portion just as long as this is the portion with with highest supply of oxygen. Placenta praevia is where the accreta happens near the cervix. It is easier to detect Placenta Praevia and the worst thing that could happen is that the baby is premature. Most though who have placenta praevia survive so there is nothing to be worried about. Placenta accreta is more undetectable.

binay daughter, Kenelly Binay
*Image from http://www.philstar.com/article.aspx?articleid=497555

Why isn’t placenta accreta detected early? To be able to detect this disease that happens rarely, a doppler ultrasound should be used, which is not normally done during transvaginal ultrasound. When I knew I was pregnant, they said I had a blighted ovum and the doctors did not suspect anything else. The gestational sac was clearly there, but with no baby. I had a d&c procedure done. I was then cleared, but to our surprise, I bled again and I bled profusely (when the bleeding should have stopped). I had a second d&c, but much to my new doctor’s surprise, when she did a transvaginal ultrasound, some placenta remains were still seen. She referred me to a doctor who was a trophoblastic specialist and given all the ultrasound scans and the histopath results, she said that I probably had placenta accreta and not GTD.

How will you know or what are the indications to check if it’s either GTD or Placenta Accreta?
1. Normally for GTDs, the doctors would already see it during a transvaginal ultrasound. So ask for your doctors if you can have a doppler ultrasound if you want to be sure.
2. There are three things to check if it’s GTD: if fetal tissues are present, if villis are present or if there is trophoblastic proliferation (but the third also can be indication of Placenta accreta)
3. Have a beta HCG test. If your HCG levels go up even if you have had a dilation and curettage procedure, the HCG levels should go down.

When you search on the internet for cures for placenta accreta, all of these searches would say that one would need histerectomy right away.

Check out this sample video:



Here’s a video on placenta praevia and other pregnancy difficulties:



I had a Beta-HCG reading of 3800 when I started. The week after, I had 3,000. I asked my doctor if we could wait one more week. After a week it was at 1800. My doctor did not agree to wait for another week, because if we go by the book, after two weeks of beta hcg being that high, the doctor has to act on it, either by histerectomy or in the case of conservative doctors in the Philippines, they do try chemo medication.

I just had my first course of chemo (5 days with a low dosage). The side effects would be oral ulcers that are really bad, but I was lucky enough to have none. The doctor said I had a strong immune system. I will have my blood tested next week to check my beta hcg levels and of course, to have a complete blood count. It is important to have iron during the course of medication.

I’m still hoping for the best. The doctor says that hopefully, a year after my hcg levels go back to zero, I can have a baby, but they have to do histerectomy right away after the procedure.

I still believe in miracles though. Who knows?

I am writing this post for other women out there so you may know about these things. I have bought baby books and I haven’t seen one yet that discusses this in detail. Just some tips, they say that the probable cause may be lack of red meat or high levels of mercury (but then again, it’s still not proven). Also, try to take vitamins already during the time you are still planning to get pregnant. Eat a balanced diet so you are sure that you give yourself and your baby-to-be enough nutrients.

Also, if you have questions on where to contact my OB, kindly message me and I will give you her contact details.

I hope this helps! Again, all these are what I experienced. It’s still best to ask your own OB for guidance.

Please do purchase my eBook. It is entitled Complexities in Pregnancy.” Please click on this link:
http://www.smashwords.com/books/view/21180

Waiting to Exhale

There is certain calmness that we feel every time we exhale. There’s that certain tranquility and peace that we feel. For the past month, I have felt that I have been continuously inhaling and inhaling… and inhaling further.

Before my daunted pregnancy, when I was stressed, I would run around – no matter the time, the place. I just kept on running until I found that feeling as when you exhale. Now I blog.

I know most of you have been wondering what happened to me after I knew about my ‘blighted ovum’ or anembryoinic pregnancy. Well, I wished and I hoped that miraculously the baby would appear. But on the 9th week, my doctor, Dra. Aherrera said that we had to take it out. That was May 3, 2010. She inserted a drug to help my uterus contract to expel the gestational sac, placenta and whatever my body made for the baby. It was 11:00 am.

That whole day, I was contracting like hell! I just wanted to get it over with and have everything expelled. I did not bleed until 11 in the evening. The bleeding was so profuse that I didn’t want to go to the hospital just because of the fact that I didn’t know how to get there with all the blood.

At 4am, the bleeding stopped. I rushed to Makati Medical Center and I had my D&C operation at 9:00 am. It was successful as mentioned in the histopath or the medical report that was given after.

I continued to have bleeding, when it was expected of me to stop within 5-10 days. The doctor said that spotting was okay so I didn’t know if mine was relatively considered spotting. I went to my OB again before she went on vacation on May 13, ten days after my D&C. She said that it was not common for bleeding to still continue until the 10th day, so she gave me 2 tablets that would make me expel anything left. I took one in the evening and one on the morning of May 14. I thought everything was okay because the bleeding was not that much anymore. It was my ninang’s birthday so I went to her house party that evening.

After dinner, around 10pm, I started to bleed again profusely. EJ rushed me to Medical City at 11pm. The doctors were surprised to see me bleeding especially after I told them that I had a previous D&C operation. They did not want to release me anymore so I stayed in the labor room overnight. Around 5 am, they did a transvaginal ultrasound again and saw that I still had remains. They scheduled me another D&C at 7:30 am under Dra. Germar.

You would normally have the results or the histopath after three days. In that time, I was looking already for another OB so I went to see Dra. Genuino at Medical Plaza building (right beside Makati med). She was so nice. She had an ultrasound machine at her own office and she offered to check me with that again. And bad news was that she saw something again in my uterus which looked like placenta remains. She wanted to see the histopath and I told her that I was getting it in the afternoon. When I got the results, I went straight to Dra. Germar for consultation. It said to test for beta HCG levels. The hcg levels in the body indicate if we are still pregnant. The histopath said not to rule our gestational trophoblastic proliferation. To put it in simpler terms, there might be placenta cells multiplying inside of me that may be benign or malignant. The benign getational trophoblastic disease or GTD is what they call H-mole. The malignant, I didn’t anymore ask because you know what that means.

Dra. Genuino mentioned that we seek the help of a Trophoblastic Specialist. There are only a few in Manila (around a handful only). Her name was Dra. Lillibeth Sarmiento. When I met her, she mentioned that what I have may be what they call Placenta Accreta. It’s an abnormality of the placenta to attach itself deeply into the muscles of the placenta and that is why it can’t be removed by the normal D&C. She mentioned that GTD cannot be ruled out as well since we cannot do a biopsy. A biopsy would mean that they have to take out the uterus right away. Since she knew this was supposed to be my first pregnancy, she said that if the HCG levels don’t drop in multiples by meaning from the 3800 level that I was in, if it doesn’t go down to 999 or below, we have to do chemo medication.

I had the first check a week after that and it dropped to 3000. I asked for one more week and last June 4, it was at 1800. It’s June 8 and I just came from Dra. Sarmiento and she said it isn’t enough. If you go by the books, after two weeks with HCG levels that high, they are required to do chemo already. So I finally agreed to have this medication.

The side effects would not be as grave as loosing hair since the dosage is low. I will have oral ulcers (singaw) though. I’m feeling a bit light headed also. I can’t have a baby for one year and I’m hoping that a miracle happens and they won’t have to take my uterus out after that pregnancy. I need to have a CS pregnancy since if I do a normal delivery and placenta accreta happens again (which is most likely to happen), I may be in danger of internal bleeding.

Today is my first day of chemo and i’m hoping that after the first course, the results on June 17 would make me happy.

Right now, i’m just waiting to exhale.

Yoga for Menstruating, Menopausal and Pregnant Women

I have always been active all my life. At the age of 11, I used to go with my Aunt to a gym in Greenhills, way before any of the Slimmer’s World, Fitness First or Gold’s Gym have been recognized. At the age of 15, I started joining Aerobics marathons and joined the Slimmer’s World Great Bodies competition. At the age of 19, I was joining 10K races with a PB time of 40.47 minutes. Until before I got pregnant last February, I was still running everyday and doing yoga occasionally. Imagine how I’m feeling now that I am advised to stay put after my miscarriage. I can’t run. I can’t walk. I’m not allowed even to stand for a long time.

I just realized then that there may be a lot of women experiencing the same dilemma, since a lot of women are either pregnant, menstruating or in menopause. I quickly searched the net for yoga positions that women can do. These are videos from Expert Village.

Introduction to Prenatal Yoga



Alternate Nostril Breathing



Yoga Squat Position
Step 1: Position yourself in a squatting pose with your bottom lower than your knees.
Step 2: Point your knees out toward the sides of your body.
Step 3: Keep your feet flat on the floor, with your toes pointing slightly outward.
Step 4: Keep your arms in front of your knees.
Step 5: Place your hands together in front of you, palms facing and fingers pointing up.
Step 6: Use a yoga block for support once you need it. This may not be necessary early in your pregnancy, but probably will be needed beginning in the second trimester.
Step 7: Keep your back straight and picture yourself being pulled upwards by a string without actually moving. This helps open your pelvic area.
Step 8: Imagine an openness in your body as you take deep, calming breaths.
(*Steps from: eHow.com)



Downward Dog Position



Cat and Cow Position
Step 1: Stand on your knees and hands in the middle of your mat. Your hands should be flat with your fingers facing forward. Your hands and knees must be in line with each other. The arms and thighs should be perpendicular to the ground.
Step 2: To get into the cow position, inhale while raising your head, depressing the spine and pointing your bum to the sky.
Step 3: While in the cow position, fill the lungs and abdomen fully. Hold your breath for about 3 seconds.
Step 4: Exhale into the cat position by lowering your head and allowing your spine to reach towards the sky while your bum is pointing down. Your head is facing your thighs.
Step 5: As you finish exhaling, contract the abdomen and hold your breath for about 3 seconds.
(*from relaxation-at-home.com)




Warrior poses



These are a few yoga poses that you can do. If you want more poses to be featured, just comment on this link or you can search through the sources.

I hope this helps you as much as it is helping me today!

Losing Weight After Pregnancy

Tips on how to lose weight after having a baby

Lose wight after having a baby!

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The depression after a pregnancy, they say can make you lose weight. But not that much. Losing weight after pregnancy is so hard to do! It’s sad to be limited by the number of activities that you can actually do while recovering. It’s the first week after my miscarriage (which is sort of equivalent to normal delivery) and I am limited to sitting and not doing any form of physical activity yet.

I know that within the three months that I have been pregnant, I gained a few pounds, probably because I wasn’t attacked by morning sickness and the like. I never imagined that the feeling of helplessness and disgust for yourself would really be evident!

So what are some things that we can do while recuperating and gaining back that ‘hot’ body you once had before pregnancy:

1. No fast food and avoid fried food!
This is so hard to do. Personally, when I search the web for delivery services, I have to doubly stop myself from ordering from fast food stores (and my old self wasn’t even a fan of burgers and fries!). I understand the feeling that whenever you get to see that crispy, crunchy and juicy fried chicken, you want to munch it down, but STOP yourself!

2. Drink lots and lots of water
I recommend that you bring one pitcher of water inside your room and try to finish one pitcher in the morning and one pitcher in the evening. Water will make you full plus it has zero calories.

3. Walk a little
Hey, when they say no physical activity, it doesn’t mean that you cannot walk to the other room. Try to get up from your bed a couple of times during the day and walk around the house for at least 5 minutes. This will help circulate the blood in your body.

4. Eat lots of fiber enriched food or just take psyllium
Would you believe that I take 5 capsules of C-lium fiber before every meal! I am that constipated (it’s genetics). For those not as constipated as I am, just try to take in more fruits and vegetables. This is a great way to cleanse your system.

5. And lastly, Relax and Laugh a little (a LOT actually)!
Have a 30 rock marathon or download comedies just to get your mind off your situation. I started with self pity, sadness and depression, but then I am slowly coming to realize that what I had, what we had, was a gift. If. like me, you have no baby to look at in your arms right now, all I can say is that there is a reason for everything. And for those new moms, smile because that little person in your arms is a wonderful gift. You have been strong enough to endure the pain and isn’t that peaceful little face worth all of it! :)